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My partner left me for a colleague. I found out through a message from a friend. I was not crying; I was stunned. I called Lamine without much belief. He listened. He said: ‘Do you want him to come back, or do you want to understand why he left?’ I said: ‘I want him to come back.’ He said: ‘Then we will work on the bond, not on the anger.’ He worked.

Read moreRead less — Carole V.

Forty days later, my partner came back. He was not proud of himself. He did not tell me everything. But he came back. Today, we are trying to rebuild. I do not know whether it will last. But he is here. Those are the facts.

My wife left me on a rainy day. I remember because I stayed outside in the rain for an hour. I did not know where to go. I called Lamine the next day. He asked me to describe our last argument. I told him about it. He said: ‘It is not what you said that made her leave.

Read moreRead less — Jean-Luc P.

It is what you did not say.’ I knew I had come to the right place when he named the thing I had never said to my wife. He worked. Five weeks later, my wife called me. She wanted to talk. We talked for three hours. Today, we are separated, but we speak. It is not what I wanted at first. But it is better than silence.

When I think back to that time, I do not recognise myself. I had stopped eating and going out. My husband had gone to his mother’s. My children asked where Dad was. I did not know what to say. I called Lamine. He said: ‘Do not lie to them. Tell them Dad is at his mother’s and that you are working for him to come back.’ I did that.

Read moreRead less — Fatou S.

He worked. Two months later, my husband came back. He did not apologise straight away. But he came back. Today, we are still together. I do not know how long it will last. But I know I did what I needed to do. I have no regrets.